Haven expert debunks domestic abuse myths on the Live Brighter podcast

If you’ve ever wanted to hear some easily-digested mythbusting about domestic violence and intimate partner violence, have a listen to a Haven expert on the latest episode of the Live Brighter podcast.

Haven prevention coordinator Mei clarifies common myths, talks about the nuances of unhealthy relationships, and highlights Haven’s services in this half-hour podcast. 

The podcast, hosted by Tara Wolfe Schaan, is for women who have experienced an emotionally or religiously destructive relationship; the podcast encourages everyone to live brighter, 1 percent at a time. 

You can find this episode and all episodes Live Brighter on Apple, Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Timestamps for the episode: 

- **00:00:00:** Introduction to Haven and guest Meilyn

- **00:01:22:** Discussing common myths about domestic abuse

- **00:04:03:** Explaining the power and control wheel

- **00:05:41:** How isolation and emotional abuse develop

- **00:09:54:** Red flags and early warning signs in relationships

- **00:13:02:** New signs of unhealthy dynamics: betrayal and sabotage

- **00:19:16:** Flipping the victim-blaming script: From "Why don't they just leave?" to “Why is the abuser causing harm?” 

- **00:20:55:** Overview of Haven's support services, including advocacy and shelter options

- **00:24:23:** How friends and supporters can help

- **00:26:27:** Haven’s definition of domestic and intimate partner violence

- **00:28:00:** Listening to your gut and recognizing when something doesn't feel right

- **00:29:12:** Closing remarks and next episode preview